Being someone who’s ultimate long term goal is to find a single long term relationship, I kept asking myself, “Why would I open up so many sets and jump from set to set?” But then it occurred to me, that I could be wasting my entire night on a dead end, when opening up multiple sets would, as the title of this post would suggest, maximize my chances of meeting someone that could lead to the long term relationship I’m seeking.

Not only that, but I’m sure this does wonders for social skill building and confidence!

“How I perform during short-setting is I will open a set stay in said set for anywhere from 30 seconds to five minutes and eject after raising thereemotional state-which can be achieved through several different ways;making them smile, laugh and generally just have a good time while being around you.”

I think I understand the gist of it, but the phrasing is very confusing. I also believe you made some typos and it should read “…and eject after raising their emotional state-…”

One thing that I wanted a little clarification on was the bit about saying something like they’re about to lose a heel on their shoe. Maybe I’m reading too much into this, but is the heel even relevant at all? Does it matter whether or not they are in fact losing a heel, and the point is to just say something for that little confidence boost? Would you be able to suggest another example, or better yet, an example of what NOT to say (if anything?)

I really like this idea of losing the whole “feeling confident” thing and the entire term altogether though. Just feeling good and letting it happen naturally just makes things seem so much easier than worrying about whether or not I am confident.

Woah, that turned out longer than I was expecting! Well, I hope it brings some life to these blogs, even though this one is quite dated.

Jason