Do you think looks matter?

Ask yourself this; Do you think looks matter? Why or why not? Do you think that it’s the be all and end-all of how some guys just seem to always be around women?

Turns out women are more emotional driven then men, while men are more visual. Think about it this way; men see an attractive woman they want to get to know her more, where as if a woman feels good around a man, they are more likely to continue seeing them, then it’s all up to escalation from there.

This is something most men believe that is built into women’s selection choice’s for their potential mates. But it is only partially true! You should be in good health and have great hygiene anything beyond that really isn’t all that necessary. It’s all about the quality of your genetics and this is about where it stops directly for women to be attracted to you physically.

What I mean by good health is if you’re overweight start eating healthier and go to the gym, if you have a receding hairline, shave your head or do something with your hair so it isn’t as noticable, if you have acne, try a facial cleansing cream etc. There are a multitude of things that you can do to improve upon things that nature throws against you.

Overall though, looks don’t matter to women as much as you think they do. However, to yourself this has a great impact on your own self-confidence, how you carry yourself, and how you act and react to different situations.

Basically, it has nothing to do with how you look to other people, it’s how you feel you look to yourself. The better you think you look the more confidence and drive you will have. This directly relates to how you then make people feel around you and the decisions you make in your day to day life.

Think about how you feel when you get a new haircut or when you buy some new clothes that fit well and are your style exactly. How do you feel differently than on any other day?

This is why you should look and feel your best at all times. You never know who you will run into where and if you feel more confident about yourself then you are more likely to have an overall more positive experience.

After some practice and experience you will be able to turn these emotions on and off whenever  you want and it won’t be about a haircut or those new shoes, jeans etc.

All I ask is that you think of this reasoning the next time you don’t think you are attractive enough for ‘that girl’. It is all your own perception.